Save Your Marriage Secrets
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Save Your Marriage Secrets
One of
the greatest lessons in life is the realization that the limit to your
learning is endless. Old, young, wise, not so wise, all people have the
opportunity to learn something new every day. You may or may not be aware of
it, but over the course of a lifetime you learn more about how life works,
how other people work, and even about yourself and how you interact with
others. Life is continually calling us into learning, and this is especially
applicable when it comes to human relationships.
One of
the greatest relationships we are called into over the course of our life is
marriage. This does not necessarily mean that it is the most important life
relationship, but it is one whose success or failure has the greatest impact
on your adult life. And in looking at marriage, there are a number of key
skills that are crucial to navigating your way through marriage.
There
will always be couples who live in apparent wedded bliss, and those that will
tell you that they never fight or disagree. That simply isn't true. As each
of us grow and evolve, we are called to learn different lessons in different
ways, and one of the exciting things about marriages is the way we interact
and negotiate our way around issues when we look at things from different
perspectives. Those who tell you they have never been challenged in this way
have never really lived. But what determines whether this challenge is a
positive or negative experience for your marriage is how both of you choose
to react to your differences and work around them.
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When
faced with a disagreement there are a range of choices. The first is to back
down, allowing the other to make their point and express it. Another is to
challenge their point and ascertain whether it is correct. Another choice is
to discuss both options and see if there is room for flexibility. Are both of
you correct, or is one of you incorrect in your viewpoint? How much is one
person's viewpoint inhibiting the beliefs, values, or morals of the other?
The
most important point here however, is introspection. Evaluate your actions
and reactions.
* What
lesson am I being called to learn in this conflict?
* What can I learn about my partner and myself? * What can I learn in order to address this issue and move forward?
The
key is to understand the issues and to find small ways to move forward. You
can call them goals. Make them achievable, and make them measurable. How
often are you coming back and seeing if you have reached your goals? Are you
making progress or are you at a stalemate?
The
important thing to realize is that you are always learning, and finding new
ways of understanding and loving each other as well as yourselves. Think of
your marriage issues as an opportunity for growth and understanding.
The
next step is to identify the lessons that you both must learn. In marriage we
are called into a constant evolution, a journey of loving. The challenge to
all marriages, good and bad, is to find new ways of loving each other. If you
have been married one year, ten years or forty years, the challenge is still
the same. Grow in love together.
What
can you learn from your partner and your marriage today? What do you know
today that you didn't know yesterday. The secret is to never stop learning.
And when you do stop learning, that's where we can help.
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